Oldie but Goodie

Hey all - Its been a minute since I blogged , but thats usually good because that means im busy creating!

Today I was cleaning out my inbox and I came across a very old forward from 2006- its what they call a oldie but a goodie, so I wanted to share it with you:
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A Soulful Relationship*
By Reverend Ronald McFadden

If you're not married yet, share this with a friend.
If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married
couples.. and reflect on it.

An African proverb states, "Before you get married,
keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one
eye."

Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't
let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others
or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes
open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what
you see as faults aren't really important.

Once you decide to commit to someone, over time their flaws,
vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious.

If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve,
you've got to learn to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.
You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs,
values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths. You are two unique individuals
who have decided to share a life together.

Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other?
Do you bring out the best of each other? Do you compliment and
compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare, and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?

You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life", you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and
selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving
and lasting relationship. Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

What keeps a relationship strong?

Communication, intimacy, trust, a sense of humor, sharing household tasks, some getaway time without business or children and daily exchanges (a meal,
shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note). Leave a nice message on their voicemail or send a nice email. Sharing common goals and interests.

Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving
each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to
have outside interest. You can't always be together. Give each other
a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don't try to
control one another. Learn each other's family situation. Respect his
or her parents regardless. Don't put pressure on each other for
material goods. Remember for richer or for poorer. If these qualities
are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal,
abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.

" Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will
never go any higher than you think." The grass
withers, the flowers fades, but the word of God stands forever.
Isaiah 40:8 Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight.
Always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary.
The difference between 'United' and 'Untied' is where
you put the I. Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away.

Ultra Stylish Invites by Kee2Creativity!

Once again, I have another myspace friend that I have to tell you all about because, simply put her invites are gorgeous!! Hers more about Kee2, in her own words:

"Kee2Creativity Inc. is a blossoming creative boutique boasting a signature line of invitations for all occasions, savvy stationary, and a array of other services. Our full-scale graphic capabilities allow us to meet virtually all business and event services design needs. Whether the special occasion or business ignites the mood of a tailored suit, mini skirt or favorite pair of jeans, Kee 2 Creativity marries the perfect elements of style and designs our clientʼs want, with the wonderful element of surprise they appreciate. Recognizing that every special occasion has an intimate significance to each client and their guests, we aim to provide not only a lasting impression of the event, but also an irreplaceable memory of the experience."

So as you can see Ms. Kee2 knows how to add that special touch to your beautiful day. So, Brides 2 Be make sure to check out her work!

Arkeelaus D. Sherman
Kee 2 Creativity
www.kee2creativity.com
"Creative designs with an added flair; that's Kee!"

My shop on Etsy!

You've been asking and now its here... my own online shop!!! Come check me out!!

Project Runway says I Do!

So for the devoted fans of Project Runway, I had to post the winning dress from last night's episode. I haven't watched much of this season, but after seeing this dress I HAVE to tune in to see how Ms. Leanne Marshall fares at Bryant Park.

Simply put it was a GORGEOUS DRESS!!!!!! This picture really doesn't capture how pretty is. It really was a work of art, mixing the modern with the more classic idea of a traditional wedding dress. And the bridesmaids dress complement the whole idea as well. After being a bit bored by Project Runway, I definetely got a jolt of fashion passion in my system now!! Good luck Leanne!

More of Leanne can be found here: www.leanimal.com

Happy Anniversary to The Obamas

I'd be remiss not to mention the Obamas celebrated their 16th wedding anniversary here in Chicago . I'm sure they had no clue as to where they would be 16 years later but here they are ...still strong!! That's inspiration for all of us! Happy Anniversary Michelle & Barack!

One size fits all??

One of the things most bridal stores will probably give you a standard piece of advise. Order a size larger than you think you will need because wedding dresses run small. But somehow, I dont't think this bride listened ...or even cared for that matter. Another fashion don't.

Beyonce's Bling

Apparently, I was the last to know that Beyonce is sporting her wedding ring around town.. All I can say is wooooowwwwww!!